Triangulation| Why black men pit black women against white women

I try to explain to one of my black female friends, that when black men compare you ladies to other races of women, uplifting them while denigrating you, this is triangulation. 

 The narcissist will draw false comparisons between the victim and someone else,  insulting the victim while uplifting the pawn, with the sole intention of fabricating jealousy. Then when the victim defends themselves against being compared to someone else and insulted in the process, the narcissist can then teist the victim's self defense into jealousy. Painting the victim/narcissistic supply as the jealous aggressor, while the narcissist plays victim.

 Black men will compare black women to white women, uplifting white women, while simultaneously insulting black women in the same comparison. When black women respond in self defense to being insulted, black men then twist black women's  response in self defense, into being jealousy. Then accuse you of being jealous of white women, and hateful, painting themselves as victims of your jealousy who are just fighting for their right to love who they please without opposition....

 The keyword here in the definition of triangulation, is "fabricate" jealousy.  They twist your justifiable response to being insulted, into jealousy. Then play victim. 

 Narcissists attempt to pit two people against each other like this, because it strokes their ego, That two people are odds with each other over them. Both parties of people being triangulated, serve as the narcissistic supply.

 White women are not our enemy. They would love to see us fight with white women, to stroke their ego, rather than us noticing how both women are being manipulated to supply the narcissist's ego, and fight black men.